I'll be blunt.
This trick is plain ol' dirty.
And at first there was no way I was going to include it as
one of my dating tips for men, but when I saw how
ridiculously effective it was... I changed my mind.
I can only hope that Zoe, Erica, and Natalia never read
this article.
I call this dating advice or technique:
'Yourspace IS Myspace'
And if you haven't already figured it out, you need to have
myspace, facebook, or some kind of online dating profile to
make this work.
So let's look at a typical seduction scenario...
You get her phone number, and either
a) start some texting going back and forth
or
b) call her up and get her on the phone
Either way, one of your goals should be to find out
specific things that she is interested in, or better yet,
passionate about.
Here are a few examples of the type of information we're
after-
'She loves Star Wars but hates Jar Jar Binks, she is crazy
about mojitos, a German Shepard saved her as a child, etc.'
Now, as we are SUBTLY gathering this type of information
from her, we are also simultaneously logged in to our
Myspace account.
And you guessed it, we are quickly editing our own personal
details to match hers.
Of course you want to use a little imagination here... One
of the girls I actually did this with told me she liked
Star Wars, but hated Jar Jar Binks... So I immediately put
'Star Wars' as one of my favorite movies and added in
parenthesis- (but Jar Jar Binks is dead if I ever see him
on the street)
After I had gathered one or two more pieces of personal
information from her, I immediately accused her of stalking
my myspace profile. (Keep in mind I had already made the
changes)
The conversation went something like this:
Me: "Ok Zoe, listen, I already think you're awesome...You
don't have to pretend that you have all these things in
common with me...
Zoe: "What are you talking about? I'm not pretending!"
Me: "Oh come onnn, you obviously found my myspace profile
and are havin' a good time with me right now..."
Zoe: "No way! I didn't!"
Me: "Okkkk..." (still not believing her)
Zoe: "What's your myspace?"
Me: "I think you already know, but just for kicks its
myspace.co******"
(she looks)
Zoe: "No WAAAAAY! This is unbelievable!"
And what resulted was nothing less than INSTANT BONDING.
Not just did she (and the others I've tried this with)
completely buy it, but my perceived status was actually
higher than hers because it was still her job to persuade
ME that she wasn't trying to seduce ME.
Of course at some point you want to discard the 'playful
suspicion' and acknowledge with her that there is something
pretty special going on.
And when you do reach that point where you are both
mutually excited about everything you have in common, you
have a gift wrapped opportunity to phase shift into
"logistics." (When you make plans for the date)
The genius of this is you will have so many different
viable options as to what to do with her; You could watch
Phantom Menace together while drinking mojitos and shouting
obscenities at Jar Jar.
The point is you will know exactly what to do together,
because "you love so many of the same things."
Hey, I warned you this technique might be considered a bit
underhanded and definitely cheesy.
I, for one, have always been much more concerned with what
works.
Enjoy, Julian
PS: If you are using Facebook or Myspace, make sure the
setting that allows people to see when you've made updates
to your profile is off.
PPS: It is important that she HAS NOT ACTUALLY SEEN your
profile previously.
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Julian Foxx is considered by many to be the fastest Rising
Star in the pickup artist and dating community. His jaw
dropping effectiveness with women is matched only by his
ability to innovate powerful new techniques, giving their
user a ridiculously unfair advantage. To discover cutting
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