I gotta tell you that I'm constantly hearing guys talk
about calibration. Most dating tips for men include
calibration and such.
But what does calibration REALLY mean in relation to dating?
You could open the dictionary and easily look up a dozen
different definitions for the word.
But there is one in particular I think that the pickup
artist should memorize:
cal·i·brate [kal-uh-breyt] -verb
-to determine the correct range for (an artillery gun,
mortar, etc.) by observing where the fired projectile hits.
Please read that again because it is a perfect analogy for
what we are trying to accomplish in a seduction.
Every guru and their mother make reference to calibration
but tend to be extremely vague when talking about how to
IMPROVE IT.
I've heard all sorts of crap, everything from "You just
have to practice more" to "Calibration can't be taught,
that's why naturals are naturals."
Such bullshit. If I could put a sound effect in right now
it would be that annoying buzzer from Family Feud.
Of course calibration can be improved! And I'm going to
show you a technique that will do it. This dating advice
is called:
'Imaginary Action Reversal'
In a nutshell it's quite simple...
Before you start down a risky conversational topic, send a
text message, make a phone call, go in for the kiss, or any
other assortment of actions you might take with a woman, it
is useful to IMAGINE that whatever you are about to
do...she does to you instead!
Then ask yourself:
"Did I just get MORE attracted or LESS attracted to her?"
And finally, allow your intuitive response to guide your
decision whether or not to make the move.
Think about it...
Who is the best judge you have to determine if an action is
'attractive' or not?
You guessed it, it's YOU.
I know men are from Mars and woman are from Jupiter or
whatever, but we sure got a lot of things in common and one
of those things is definitely attraction.
Behavior that normally turns me off, usually turns a woman
off. And behavior that normally turns me on, usually turns
a woman on.
We are not as different as society has us believe.
So if you'd like to take your own calibration to the next
level, here is a quick recap of the steps:
1. You get an impulse to say or do something that relates
to her
2. You imagine HER saying or doing it to YOU
3. You pay attention to your own emotional response (to the
image) and let the quality of your response determine
whether or not you go through with the action.
Easy as Pie.
Practicing this exercise is simple, fun, and an amazingly
effective way of developing pin-point calibration.
Have fun,
Julian
PS: Depending on the situation, the amount of TIME you
have to use the technique is a factor. You don't want to
interrupt the flow of a good conversation if you don't have
to.
Just be confident that the more comfortable you become with
Imaginary Action Reversal, the faster you will get, and
eventually it will become something you are always
subliminally aware of.
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Julian Foxx is considered by many to be the fastest Rising
Star in the pickup artist and dating community. His jaw
dropping effectiveness with women is matched only by his
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