Specific Logistical Issues for Pick Up Artist

As a follow up to the previous email about specific
handicap issues, I want to respond to some emails
concerning specific logistical problems.

The most important thing to remember about logistics is
that it is about moving a woman to a sexy-location without
missing windows of escalation.

Keeping that in mind, let's begin.

"Yo Vin I just want to say thank you for all you've done to
help us guys improve our lives. Too many guys nowdays don't
know what they are doing with women and that's gotta be a
major factor when you look at all the crime and unhappiness
these days.

I've been studying your stuff for a long time man and I
have made so much improvements it's not even funny. Like my
boys don't even recognize me sometimes and then at the club
I'm a monster!!!

My problem is that I live with my sister, and sleep on her
couch (it's a one-bedroom). Her boyfriend is always over
and sleeps in her bed making all kinds of racked I don't
want to hear. So it's like if I bring a chick back first we
have to be on the couch, and then my sis and her bf are
gonna be all loud. Most of the girls I meet are under 22
and don't have their own place. What should I do and do you
have any suggestions for places I could take them?"

You didn't say how old you are, but I'm guessing you're
between 18 and 22.

A few things instantly come to mind. First, if you are
focusing all your energy on women, I suggest you take a
little bit of that energy and channel it towards getting
your own place.

You gotta walk before you can run, and having to sleep on
your sister's couch seems more pressing than getting laid.
Look at the big picture - this is your LIFE.

OK point two: I don't see your sister making-love noises as
being a bad thing. In fact I think it could work to your
advantage.

I've hooked up with women many times with my friends doing
the same in the next room, or even the same room.

What's interesting is that when other people are hooking
up, it can put just enough pressure on her to do the same,
as she won't want to seem prudish.

However, if you try to pressure her yourself, this will
backfire. The "mating noises" do that for you. If you get
pushy, you'll go overboard and freak her out.

So that's not really a drawback.

The real issue is that you have to sleep on the couch. Get
some blankets, pillows, or a sleeping bag, and camp out on
the floor instead.

Use watching movies as an excuse to set this up.

The alternative is to go to her place, which I'll get into
more in my next answer.

"Vin I need your help!

I'm seeing this girl but so far we have only been to dinner
and had drinks. I have nowhere to go when I wanted to get
her alone. My place is a studio and super small. I live in
San Diego where a lot of people are rich (including this
girl) and I feel like I will look like a chump. Most of
these guys out here are making way more money than me. I'm
stuck because I lied about my place to this woman. I want
to go to HER place, but she seems to be reluctant. Like if
I took the lead, she'd go, but she doesn't want to take
responsibility (oh by the way I only get that after reading
the Attraction Code haha!). is there a way to insinuate
that we should go to her place without making her feel
guilty?"

Yep, there sure is.

But first I want to address something.

You lied to this girl about something that she will
eventually find out!

This is a thing that you don't want to do. Ever.

But this is the most common thing guys do - not in terms of
logistics but in their personality.

Using a personality that is not yours in approaching a
woman and having an intention to get to know and be
intimate with her, and have her as part of your life, guess
what?

She's going to see the real you eventually. And then she
will wonder why you aren't the guy she met in the first
place. This is bad.

It's going to be pretty hard to patch up this mistake, but
the best thing you can do is reframe it.

Say you have met so many shallow women in SD, and you were
worried she wouldn't want to get to know you if she knew
you lived in a studio.

But now that you've gotten to know her, you know that you
were wrong, because she's different than the other girls,
and you feel comfortable being more open with her.

Got that? Write it down - you'll need it.

OK as far as logistics.

Having a studio is an advantage. Why?

Because the couch is the bed! You don't even have to move
her to the bedroom - you're in it.

If you want to get to her place, for whatever reason, just
go on another date at a venue near her place.

It's a no-brainer after that. Of course there are other
ways, verbal tools you can use to reframe the situation and
have her inviting her to take you back to her place.

This is what you will learn in Drills. Not a huge list of
specific lines to say, but an overarching focus that will
always point your thoughts in the right direction, and lead
to you saying the right things in every situation.

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