Can a Woman Fall In Love with You?

When I was in college, there was this girl...we'll call her
Julie.

I met her in one of my classes, and we'd always sit
together and joke about the professor and write doodles on
each other's notes.

As I got to know her, I could feel myself falling for her.
She was smart, funny, and beautiful.

That was the only class I recall looking forward to all
throughout my undergraduate years.

I would actually take a shower and dress really nice before
class. I'd plan jokes and stories from the weekend (that
were mostly made up) that I'd tell her to make her like me.

After sometime, she began to confide in me. We'd study
together, and end up talking about dating and relationships.

She was seeing this guy, who, at the time, seemed like a
total jerk. She'd tell me all the things he supposedly did
(or didn't do) and I'd just end up thinking,

"What does she see in him? Can't she see how much I like
her? I would treat her so much better."

Eventually, I think she caught on that I was in love with
her, and we started seeing less and less of each other,
which made me act more desperate during the times I DID see
her.

And then she disappeared from my life.

This was one of many sad situations I went through with the
opposite gender.

I know a lot of guys can relate to this, even guys who are
players, and are "good" with women.

There's always that one girl, with the asshole
boyfriend...you think she's a good girl, and deserves to be
treated like a queen.

And you'd jump at the chance to be the woman's servant.

At some point, I made the following realization:

"I'm smart. I've succeeded at many other things. I have a
Master's Degree in Physics, for example. I run my own
company (a cleaning company I started out of college). If I
can figure out physics and how to run a business, I can
figure out women. There are so many guys who are better
with women, but with smaller I.Q.'s than me. I can do this."

So I began devouring every piece of information on women,
dating, and getting laid, that I could get my hands on.

I was a glutton for information (and punishment)...

I realized I needed to actually put into practice what I
learned. I began approaching women EVERYWHERE.

On the street, in stores, cafes, malls, bars...

I got rejected sooo many times. But I learned from
everything, and eventually became immune to rejection
(although it took some time, and a lot of punishment).

At some point, I became adept at approaching, and engaging
women in almost any scenario.

I was pretty impressed with myself.

But then I take these women for a date, and the same old
crap would keep repeating itself.

I was the one CALLING HER.

I was the one buying HER DINNER.

I was the one trying to get a goodnight kiss FROM HER.

I was the one pursuing to get in bed, FROM HER.

It never dawned on me that my very WANTING, and my mental
effort to GET these things was the very reason I wasn't
experiencing the reality I wanted.

Mentally I went back and forth:

"Maybe I'm just not good enough for these women. Maybe I'm
not that totally handsome or funny enough, and I will
always have to chase. Some guys have all the luck. I should
just lower my standards and accept my place in life."

And then I'd think...

"I see these other clowns getting HOT women. I see these
guys being total jerks - cheating, lying, being abusive and
insulting - and their girlfriends continue to bend over
backwards to please them.

WHY???

You've probably said these very same things to yourself.

And when you think about it, it's even more infuriating to
know that these other guys aren't even grateful for their
luck.

And what's worse, they've never had to put any effort into
getting where they are.

But here you are, obsessing over something that you deserve
- that every good guy deserves - and yet, you can't seem to
figure it out.

Well the first thing you need to know is that it's that
mental effort itself that is holding you back.

You don't need to think a lot, you just need to think smart.

With women this can be tough - especially if you're
inexperienced, have bad beliefs, or are simply ignorant to
female psychology.

It's obvious that you are highly motivated - a student of
life, ready to make a change.

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