This article is for you if you have recently broken up with
your partner and are trying desperately to win them back.
You are most certainly not alone, though it may feel that
way right now. Everyone experiences the pain of a breakup
at some point in their lives. A lot of people just go
through the pain and eventually come out the other side
ready to start dating again. However if you refuse to
accept the situation and believe with all your heart you
and your ex truly belong together then there are certainly
things you can do.
The fact of the matter is that if you are aware of the
required steps, there is no reason at all why a failed
relationship cannot be salvaged, even in the bleakest of
circumstances. The key to making this happen is to first
step back an analyze why they breakup occurred in the first
place. Yes it is pointless to dwell on the past but only if
you do not learn something from it. If you can learn from
mistakes that caused the relationship to falter, you can
ensure they do not happen again. Breakups happen for a
number of often complicated reasons, sometimes it is a
single, catastrophic event but more often it is a
combination of factors and feelings that led to the rift.
Taking time to look at what happened objectively will give
you a great chance of recovering the situation.
While you are reflecting you should present an exterior to
the world of confidence. You may be feeling actually
feeling depressed, lonely and totally lacking on confidence
but you will have a better chance of getting back together
if your ex can see that you are getting along without them.
Human nature drives us to be attracted to confident,
independent people. Needy people are not attractive. So
project this persona especially if you meet your ex. You
will be amazed at how just this small behavior change can
reap dividends.
However you should avoid trying to make your ex partner
jealous. You don't want to make your ex move on and it is a
fine balance between exuding confidence and going overboard
so that the person in question moves further away. Stay
strong and confident, resorting to cheap tricks to make him
or her jealous will more often than not backfire and it is
just not a nice way to live your life.
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Patrick has been writing about relationships for several
years. A good resource if you want to find out how to get
your ex back is at http://www.howtoget-yourexback.org
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