Let's be clear; girls have been working on how to attract
boys since their early teens. Most girls have received
attention from their opposite sex for many years, and so
for you to capture their attention (and possibly their
hearts), a different and a somewhat unique approach is
needed.
If you are interested in learning how to attract girls with
greater success then follow these three key steps and you
will set yourself apart from all the rest of the men still
trying the same unsuccessful techniques they've been using
since they were young.
1. Firstly, if you want to understand how to attract girls,
you must not seem so attracted in them. Don't chase after
them. Remember, they're used to that. When you get their
phone number, leave it a day or so before calling, and then
don't call every 5 minutes. Girls don't want to be
smothered with attention; they want to have the genuine
attention of someone that is really interested in them, and
who is looking for something more meaningful. Difficult
though it can be, if you really like someone, allow the
girl to "chase" after you. It will reap rewards in the end.
And if she doesn't chase a little, chances are she's not
interested so you then need to just move on.
2. Secondly, what you need to do to attract girls is not
seem so obviously attracted to them. Yes, we appreciate
that's the opposite of what we're trying to achieve, but
it's good advice because girls are attracted to those guys
that are not blatantly interested in them. Women tend to be
attracted towards the men that don't seem to be staring at
them, making cliche comments about how they look or trying
to get their attention. Showing a discreet interest is the
key.
A man that is minding his own business and going about his
activities without falling all over her (even if you might
want to) is a guy she will certainly notice above all the
rest. Be confident, walk proudly and adopt an attitude of
"if I get the girl, great ...if not, no problem". This
attitude will get you greater success in the long run.
3. Thirdly, realise that eventually, girls will come to you
and want to get to know you. At this point it's key that
you remain calm and collected. Maybe they ask you what time
it is, or maybe they are looking at you, or just smile at
you - as soon as you notice you've got her attention, it's
time to make your move, but (and this is important) your
move must be subtle.
If you're in the grocery store and you see she has a
certain food item in her hand, ask her if it's any good
because you wanted to try it. Is you see her at the video
store, ask her if she's rented it and what she thinks about
it. This is how to attract girls because they like to be in
meaningful conversations and simple but genuine chat will
come over as sincere and 'you are being you' rather than
just treating her like a conquest or target.
Follow these three key steps if you want to know how to
attract girls. Set yourself apart from the rest of the men
who are constantly trying to get girls attention, and you
will enjoy greater success with the girls.
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