As the super-highways of information that travel through
cyberspace end into our homes through our computers and
TVs, more and more of us are turning to the Internet for
any kind of information we may need, including online
dating.
On that note, we turn to the internet to find the Top Ten
Online Dating sites. We do not know what percentage of
singles are in the world today, but we do know that the
number runs into the millions, we turn to the Internet to
let it do most of the primary search for us. There we find
a great many articles with information mostly geared to
what women should or not do when looking for a friend,
pen-pal, someone to play, or a significant other.
I wanted to make this article different. I wanted to inform
the men who are serious about finding that special person
to complement their lives, notice I did not say a person
who will make them happy, only you are responsible for your
happiness, about some of the do's and dont's when preparing
to approach a lady you saw and liked when you searched the
Top Ten Online Dating sites. I believe that every little
bit helps.
Practically every relationship is based on a first
impression, usually one you perceive when viewing a photo.
In this case, yours.
Here's a list of suggestions that I hope you will find
useful.
When placing your photo on any of the dating sites, avoid
the following pitfalls:
Do not take a picture without a shirt; Do not take a photo
looking un-kept or with your beat up hat; Do not take a
photo with your shades on. Women want to see your eyes; Do
take a photo if possible, with a suit, or a regular shirt,
no writing of any kind on it; Try hard not to lie regarding
your age, or your looks, if you meet her, she will realize
that you were not truthful; Do place a recent photo, smile.
Now we go to the important part, meeting the person.
After exchanging a few likes and dislikes, given each other
the number to your cell phone, and agreed to meet somewhere
public, the following will apply: Do dress appropriately
for that first meeting. Look neat, clean, no chewing gum
with your mouth open, that does not impress a woman.
Whether that first meeting is long or short, depending on
the chemistry, talk. Make eye contact, ask questions.
Listen.
Please, do not talk about your ex, that only suggests that
you are either bitter or still hung up on her. Your date is
not your therapist; stay clear in your conversation with
the person you just met from your professional or personal
problems. You know what they say, laugh and the world
laughs with you; cry and you cry alone. Drink with caution,
you may send the wrong message if you over do it. Give your
date your full attention, a wandering eye is offensive to
the person you are with. Act interested in what she is
saying; keep it light.
And last but not least, if the chemistry is not there, do
not prolong the date, be polite and be honest. It's been
nice meeting you, but I don't believe there is enough
chemistry between us to warrant another meeting. Good luck
in your search, or something else along those lines!
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Gladys Alvarez, with many years experience as a
Correspondent, who's traveled throughout the world, has
done what you were all asking for; the legwork concerning
Internet dating. Through extensive research, Gladys has
eliminated the hype out of dating sites, bringing you the
results of the best.
If you found this article helpful, visit Gladys Alvarez, at
http://top10-onlinedating.com for free life coaching
articles to help you find your love, NOW!!
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