When you see a woman you are attracted to, what do you do?
Do you stand there and stare, trying to muster the courage
to approach her or do you run and hide? How do you approach
a woman and not appear desperate. When it comes to
approaching women, the majority of men over-think what they
want to say which is a mistake. Be confident, it's that
confidence that will attract the women to you.
Forget the one-liners. Pick-up lines rarely, if ever work.
Use your surroundings to your advantage. If it's a hot day
outside, comment about the weather. If you comment about
the immediate situation it will not seem out of the
ordinary, it shows that you are not being desperate, and it
opens up the line of communication.
When a woman sees you approaching, don't hesitate. If a
woman sees you hesitate she will know you are not confident
in your actions and will be turned-off. Maintain eye
contact as you approach her. Keeping eye contact lets women
know that you feel confident, and are not feeling desperate
about your actions and will be immediately drawn to you.
Try not to fidget. Fidgeting is a distraction which the
woman will see as you being uncomfortable. Any sign of
discomfort on your part and she will feel uncomfortable as
well, making for an awkward first meeting.
Once the approach has been made and the conversation has
started, listen. Give her your full attention, do not allow
what is happening around you to distract you. Women are
more attracted to men who pay attention to what they say
than one who is more concerned with what everyone around
them is doing. Make sure your responses are relevant to the
topic at hand because random words tossed out will cause
her to lose interest.
Don't come on too strong. A first meeting should never
include the phrase, 'our future together'. Your primary
goal is not to appear desperate. So be yourself. So, keep
the conversation to general chit chat. Your stance is
important as well. Don't stand too close and don't lean
into her while you are talking as this will make her feel
crowded and overwhelmed. By respecting her personal space
and bounderies, she will appreciate it and it will help her
to relax.
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years experience as a Correspondent, who has traveled
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