Her name was Julia and she was the prettiest girl I had
ever seen in my life, up to that point. I was in Junior
High School and she was one grade below me. I used to year
for those 45 minute school lunch times so I could go out in
the field or courts, hoping to spot this green-eyed beauty.
My mother had taught me that if I wanted a girl to like me
that I had to be "nice, courteous, and a gentleman". I was
all those things towards Julia, so I was surprised when she
said "no" when I asked her out. Little did I know back
then that my mom was a little off track. I love my mother
but when it came to knowing how to attract other women she
was not an expert.
What do women really want? I mean, really, really want? I
thought they wanted a man who was athletic, popular,
strong, handsome and funny. Growing up I thought that
women wanted men who were tall, rich, famous, or
good-looking. While some women like those qualities in men
that's not what most women want. Are you ready for it?
Are you ready to read what women really want?
Most women want to be swept off their feet. In other
words, most women want to have a DEEP, emotional connection
with a man. The good news for us men is that this is based
mostly on emotion. This is why there are plenty of men on
this planet who are not rich, tall, or good-looking, yet
they are able to attract the woman of their dreams. How
are they able to do this?
First, they understand what women really want. They know
that women want to have an emotional connection with
someone. That someone has to be of "higher" status based
on their own perception. I used to wrack my brains trying
to figure out what do women really want and the whole time
the answer was right in front of me. I made it all about
the woman and I forgot to remember about that all important
person: me.
Instead of trying to conform to what I thought women really
wanted I decided to make myself a better man. In part of
that pursuit I decided that I wanted a woman who wanted to
become part of my world instead of just the other way
around and that has made all the difference in the world.
I do not buy women I do not know drinks just for the
privilege to talk to them. I no longer put them on a
pedestal and I'm no longer that doormat that they used to
walk on.
What do women really want? They want a man who has a
purpose-driven life. They want a man who is confident,
comfortable in his own skin, can see the lighter side of
life, and a man who knows his own boundaries. If you are
not with the woman of your dreams today then all that means
is that you have some work cut out ahead of you. If you
want to create a deep emotional connection in other woman
then you have got learn more self-improvement,
positive-thinking, study pick up to improve your game, and
you have to leave the house several times a week and force
yourself to talk to women. Even if it's just starting out
to say "hi, my name is...." or "hey what did you think
about......?"
Yes, it really is true that most women want to have an
emotional connection with another person. The way to start
that process going is to stop trying to convince women to
like you, to stop trying to impress them, to stop chasing
them if though they might be your last chance, and take a
step back and start working on yourself first. Then you
will become the type of man that can make an emotional
connection with virtually any woman he meets.
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Rod Cortez is an international dating coach who overcame
his own shyness and anxiety attacks by utilizing his own
personal power and creating methods for meeting, talking
to, and dating attractive women. His free newsletter has
helped men in dozens of countries around the world:
http://TheDatePro.com
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