The best way to catch a cheater

Cheating spouses have been a problem for the faithfully
married for almost as long as marriage has been a
recognized union. In other words, cheating is an
unfortunate reality for married couples, as it has always
been. To further complicate this problem, over time,
cheaters have become more adept at hiding their deceit,
lies, and infidelity. As societies, and technologies,
mature -- cheaters learn from others past mistakes to help
create for them an alternate life that is well-hidden from
you, and from the rest of your world as a couple, for that
matter.

The biggest problem spot for couples, in terms of
infidelity, these days is the internet. However, many
spouses mistakenly blame the internet for the downfall of
their marriage, or the corruption of their spouse, and that
is simply not the case. In many respects, the internet has
replaced the bar scene, looking for prostitutes in the
shadier parts of town, and the newsletter-like adult
personals of years past. In other words -- the internet is
simply an easier-to-use tool for those who already had
adulterous tendencies inside of them anyway. While cheaters
like the internet because it gives them a sense of
anonymity and an extra layer of security, using the
internet is actually the best way to identify, and catch, a
cheater.

Many people are misled about the true anonymity of the
internet. In reality, most of your activities, and your
spouse's activities, are clearly visible online, so long as
you have the right resources and the know-how to find this
information. Maybe your spouse knows how to cover their
tracks on their computer -- they delete their emails, they
clear their browsing history, and maybe they even scrub
their hard-drive with data-shredding software on a regular
basis to permanently remove all traces of their illicit
activities. However, it's in what they can't do that can
eventually lead to them being caught.

Any time that your spouse signs up on a website -- a
married-but-dating website, an adult chat service, a video
cam website, or any other adult-oriented destination
online, their information is stored on that website.
What's more, though, is that sometimes, these websites
showcase profiles of their members -- profiles that anybody
can find, so long as they know what to look for, and how to
look for them.

While you may not be able to find this information
yourself, people who specialize in extramarital
investigations online can. These online investigators can
find your spouse online; they can identify which websites
he or she is visiting, any profiles that he may have setup,
and they can even communicate with your spouse, via an
online profile, to obtain definitive proof that your spouse
is, in fact, cheating on you.

While cheaters oftentimes find great comfort, albeit
misplaced, in the fact that they can hide their online
activity on their computers, the best way to catch a
cheater is by utilizing the very source of their infidelity
against them.

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Ed Opperman is the Pres of Opperman Investigations Inc and
the chief investigator for http://www.emailrevealer.com If
you need to catch a spouse cheating please feel free to
visit his web site.

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