Good Thing of Being Obsess with Video Games

Hey there,

As you probably know, I'm a big video-game nerd. My
favorites are first-person shooters.

There have been plenty of nights where I forgot to call
girlfriends back because I was absorbed in a game of Halo
or Call of Duty.

There's this new game out called Dead Space that looks
friggin awesome. Hopefully I'll get some time away from
work to check it out.

Most guys are into video games. There's something about the
goal-achievement structure, and the high level of focus
required.

I know that if I'm playing a great game, I can lose myself
for hours trying to move on to higher and higher levels.

Plus there's the obvious aspect of aggression. You can
shoot people, blow things up, and wreak havoc on entire
landscapes without anyone calling the cops (unless you go
on a cursing rampage at the top of your lungs when the
enemy kills you).

Now if you're thinking, wow this guy has passed up mating
just to play a video game, let me explain.

I'm at a point in my life where being in bed with women is
no longer some high achievement. It's not some rare treat
that I will sacrifice things to get.

In fact, I turn down sleeping with women.

But that doesn't mean I don't have a lot of mating with
women. It's just that if I took every opportunity to get
with a woman, I wouldn't have time to eat or sleep.

Hey boss, I'm a little late on the deadline this girl kept
me up all night, and I forgot I had this other chick coming
over this afternoon. I'll need an extra day to get
everything done?

But he's a younger guy, and I can't blame him. I like to
see my trainers living the kind of lifestyle they enjoy
it's one of the well-deserved perks of this job.

It's one of those quality problems a lot of guys don't
anticipate and can have difficulty adjusting to.

So where was I?

How can playing video games help you with women?

Well typically it's considered counter-productive to sit at
home and play video games rather than getting out and being
social.

And I agree.

I'm coming at this from a different angle.

I want you think about the mindset you have when you play a
video game, a first-person shooter especially.

First of all, you know your objective, and you are focused
completely on that goal.

Second, you have a handful of tools at your disposal. Not
much, as that would be overwhelming.

But just enough to handle whatever comes your way.

Third, you are constantly progressing to the next level.
And when you get there, you face a whole new set of
challenges to which you have to adapt.

And adapt you do, gradually.

But once you have that new skill-set, it's yours. You won't
make the same mistakes you did before.

You are operating on a higher level.

I never use cheats. I like the process of learning. I've
learned to ENJOY LEARNING.

If all the work is done for you, where's the fun in that?

Getting good with women is THE EXACT SAME in respect to the
above three aspects of playing video games.

Now everyone deals with failure in their own way.

Some guys reframe it as a learning opportunity.

Other guys brush it off and don't care.

And some guys get mad.

I'm not gonna lie. I've thrown my Xbox controller at the TV
many times.

But I'm usually very cool. If I die, I relax, take a break,
and reflect on what happened.

Then I came back to the game with improvement.

If you've faced a lot of failure with women, it's easy to
snap and either lose your temper or give up.

Heck, I don't blame you. I've definitely had some low
moments - much more than any self-respecting guy would put
himself through.

But in my younger days, I was a glutton for pain, because
it meant experience.

Thing is, I'm exceptional in my drive to learn. I always
have been.

And I think you are too, otherwise you wouldn't be reading
this.

What irks me is that intelligent, successful, GOOD guys are
often the ones that FAIL WITH WOMEN.

It's just not fair.

That's why I do what I do.

It's so satisfying to me to watch a guy who DESERVES to
have great women in his life go from awkward and insecure,
to confident and POWERFUL.

They are meant to CHANGE THE WAY YOU THINK.

They are intended for gradually and efficiently cultivate
all the mental tools you'll need for your interactions with
girls.

The whole point is to internalize these tools, to BECOME
the kind of guy that naturally and effortlessly attracts
and escalates with women.

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