Once there is something happening betwee the two of you.
But before that be clear about what her likes and dislikes
are. And that's what the entire flirting period is for. It
would be a bad idea to take her to a Chinese restaurant if
she can't even stand the smell of it! If your flirting
period wasn't too long or maybe lasted only a few hours or
minutes, you are more liable to commit mistakes in your
first date by either taking her to a place that she hates
or saying something to her that she might not like.
Come what may, always find out what type she is - introvert
or outgoing, nature lover or a party animal. Your first
date arrangements would be more fruitful if you know that.
Unless you have dated a dozen women earlier you are bound
to commit some basic mistakes if you don't think and act.
You can't afford to overlook some vital aspects about your
first date.
Be very clear why you want to take her out and then prepare
yourself how you would say that to her. Is it simply
because she is some kind of a sex bomb and you can't wait
more to have a bed breaking encounter with her? If that's
the reason tell her - 'let's go out someplace to know each
other better.' The idea would be to get talking with one
thing leading to another. Or is it because you feel there's
some kind of a chemistry developing between you and her?
Tell her you like the way she talks or you like her wit.
Whatever be the reason make sure the two of you have a
common understanding about the whole thing. Any
misunderstanding from either side could spoil everything.
Taking her to a hotel or a hideout would not be wrong if
she has already indicated the this was on the agenda and
acceptable. How to understand her indications is one
important aspect that I would discuss shortly. If the lady
has never gone beyond a formal conversation with you in the
past, she could go ballistic at the mention of the word
'hotel'! So it's safe to be conventional in that case. Go
to a good restaurant or a park or even a museum. The idea
is to take her to an ambience where she comes in a mood to
reveal more about herself.
Unless that happens you would only waste your time and
money and effort going out with her.Many women prefer day
time for their first dates. That mostly happens when they
are not so sure about what kind of a person you are and
what do you have in mind?
If she prefers day time go to a romantic joint where you
can sit in the sun and enjoy a wholesome lunch with her.
You never know! The reason to go in the day could be to
spend more time with you as days are longer than evenings.
To make the most of it plan a date that is activity based
like bowling, playing pool, or surfing if you are somewhere
close to the sea. In excitement she would let her hair down
which would give you enough confidence to talk more
intimately to her. If the ambience is good she would start
shedding all her inhibitions one by one...pretty much like
how she would soon be shedding her clothes too!
Often there's a dilemma - where to meet her on your first
date. Should she meet you right at the place where you wish
to spend time together or it should be somewhere you would
pick her up from? We obviously don't want you men to know
our home addresses at such an early stage. What if things
don't work out? Having someone stalk us for months is the
last thing we want if we decide not to go ahead with you
after the first date. It is always better to ask us to meet
you either somewhere on the way or at the date spot itself.
This would give us the privacy we expect from you on the
first date.
If you are picking her up from somewhere, reach there
before she reaches (don't make her wait). Once she is
there, show some class in your demeanor to give her a
feeling that it is a special day for both of you. Like a
chauffeur, get off your car, gracefully walk up to the
other side and gesture to your special woman to be seated
while holding the door open! In case you are on your bike
enjoy the warmth of her body as she sits clung to your
back, while you speed your way to the dating spot.
Your small displays of affection can make you more
endearing to her. For instance if you take her to a
restaurant, gracefully lift the chair and place it behind
her as she is about to sit. She would find this very
pleasing and it would make her feel comfortable and very
special. Imagine how naïve we are! It doesn't take you
much to pamper her
This is not "Rocket Science" but every little extra effort
will reap Great rewards.
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