The Effect of Music In Your Approached With Women

I love music. A lot of times, I'll need to listen to music
just to get motivated to do stuff like work, or go for a
run, or even before I go out with friends.

Music is an important part of my life, as I'm sure it's an
important part of yours.

I'm actually a big fan of jazz, but I also like a lot of
rap, and rock. And I've realized something over the years.

The lyrics in these genres of music usually give the WORST
advice when it comes to women.

If it's not some rapper talking about how he gets girls by
buying them stuff and showing off his jewelry, it's some
indie-rock dude whining about a girl who broke his heart
and made him depressed.

Now when I hear this stuff, I laugh. I mean, I get into the
music, and I'll even sing along sometimes.

But the mindset behind these kinds of lyrics is not just
ignorant - it's EMBARRASSING to hear another man talk this
way!

When I was a bit younger, I really go on with the lyrics
every time I heard the songs.

Crap like:

"I just wanna tell you how I feel, giiiirllll, ooooh"

"You broke my heart and now my life is over, whaaah"

"I'm so rich, I buy champagne, and impress that bitch" (I
know, I can't rap, but you get the idea)

My idea of how to talk to women was either to be "smooth,"
whatever that means (usually guys think it means lowering
your eyelids and licking your lips)...

Or be sensitive and approach a woman how crazy I was about
her...

Or try to impress her with how much money I (didn't) have!

And I see guys doing the same thing...in 2008! It's
obviously still a mystery to most guys WHAT WOMEN REALLY
WANT.

This is the worst things that you will probably do! You'd
probably have better luck not doing anything at all. You
know what I mean, right - working off your butt just to get
a woman to know you're alive.

Only for her to give you a polite smile and turn away to
talk to some other, more confident guy.

And guess what - by trying half as hard as he can(if at
all), the woman end ups sleeping with him, NOT YOU!

And it's all because you were seeking approval, and made it
apparent with your persona.

You have to retrain your brain to think in a way that is
conducive to escalation.

The thing is, it's not "hard.The one that REALLY WORK is
NEVER hard.

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