Wondering why girls don't call you back?

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Copyright (c) 2009 Vin DiCarlo

There's nothing more frustrating than spending an hour
spitting game to a girl at the bar, only to call her the
next day and not get an answer.

In the era of cell-phones, it's understandable if you don't
get an answer the first time you call. But there you are,
waiting for her to call you back.

And it never happens.

Or let's say you text her. And she doesn't text back.

That's actually worse! She OBVIOUSLY has text messaging,
and SEES YOUR TEXT.

And she chooses to not respond. After ALL THAT WORK!

To make matters worse, you were probably NERVOUS about
calling, and had to overcome a tough case of the
'butterflies' to work up the nerve to call her.

I remember back in high school, when I'd occasionally
stumble onto a phone number. Girls would have parties or
whatever, and give me their number.

"Call me!" They'd say in a chipper voice.

Yeah...as if it were that easy.

Us guys have it tough sometimes. We have to do all the work!

Or do we?

This was a question I never bothered to answer until I was
in my 20's...after a lot of failure.

But thank god I did at all!

You can't get mad about all that lost time, all those
unanswered phone calls, and failed attempts.

After all, if it weren't for your frustration, you wouldn't
be so motivated to seek out new knowledge, and learn all
you can about women.

I know that when I first got started, I was a SPONGE.

I couldn't get enough...of psychology studies, experience,
advice from women, and from guys who were good with women.

There's really no other way. I think it was Isaac Newton
who said something along the lines of "if I can see
farther, it is by standing on the shoulders of giants."

No one can do it alone. But it can certainly feel lonely on
your quest.

That's because, ultimately, no one can change your life
except for you.

And being better with women is just one aspect of this. In
fact, by improving your life in other ways, you can
actually get better with women naturally.

I have a friend named Matt.

He was one of the fastest learners in the Masterminds.

But I wouldn't say he's any smarter than the next man. He
was just totally committed, and knew how to WORK SMARTER.

OK, maybe he is smarter.

I've spoken to him about his incredible rate of progress,
and it turns out, he actually has a system to increase the
learning curve by up to TEN TIMES.

I wish I knew this stuff when I was younger. I could've
avoided all the dead-ends of dating.

It was USELESS calling a girl, and calling her again...and
again. And getting no answer.

Because not only do you not make progress, YOU DON'T LEARN
ANYTHING.

Me and my good friend Julian, who is one of the best pickup
artists I've ever met. This is a guy I'd have on my team
for sure if he weren't doing his own thing.

He and I came together to put a COMPLETE SYSTEM to not only
eliminate flaking, but to learn from your mistakes during
your initial learning-phase.

I remember one of the most profound moments I had a survey,
asking women:

"Have you ever been attracted to a man, but turned off
because of a mistake he made on the phone or text?"

Overwhelmingly, the response from REAL WOMEN was "YES."
About 90% in fact.

This just made me think of all the opportunities I WORKED
FOR, and SCREWED UP with incompetent follow-up.

And to think that I used to get nervous before phone calls,
only to get her voicemail.

The very idea of a woman NOT seeing me again is absurd.


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