In this article we will be looking at some of the best
places to find a date
Parties. Parties are always a good bet because a potential
date will likely know someone in common with yourself. This
is a great way to break the ice with someone.
Cruises. Stop laughing. You do not need to be in the Blue
Rinse brigade to enjoy a cruise. You can find cruises
designed for singles or cruises that do not allow kids.
Just beware that you may fall into the holiday romance trap
which is based on fantasy and not reality but a cruise is
still a good option so dig out your cabana wear.
Grocery stores. Grocery stores, although a bit cliched are
a fantastic place to meet someone. It is non-threatening
and spontaneous meetings happen all the time. There is a
supermarket near where I live that if you are in the
produce section on a Monday evening and you have a banana
facing upwards in your basket then you are open to an
approach. If the banana is pointing down it means no thanks.
Bus stops. If you catch a bus regularly you will no doubt
get to know everyone else that gets that bus too. You might
perhaps be able to sit next to them. The key here is
patience. Move to quickly and you will come across as a
stalker. Over time you can build up a rapport with someone
without the pressure of being, say, in a bar, where you
only perhaps have a few minutes to present your credentials.
Bookstores. The great thing about modern bookstores is they
usually have a coffee shop attached so if you do bump into
a beautiful specimen browsing A Room With A View, you can
invite them to chat about Forster over a latte.
Restaurants. This one requires some nerve. You have to be
brave enough to go over to someone on their own and ask
them if they would like company. If they say yes then you
are a giant. If they say no, it is pretty embarrassing, you
will almost certainly have been over heard and it would
take a very steely personality to recover so public a
rejection, even supposing you have the nerve to ask in the
first place. I find it hard to believe it would be possible
to pretend nothing had occurred and take a table for one.
However if you can pull this one off, your new companion
will assume you have nerves of steel which is never a bad
way to kick off a new relationship.
Airplanes. The potentially good thing here is that you have
a captive audience and often plenty of time to work your
charm. If you are traveling first class you can pull a move
like David Frost on Caroline Cushing which was a moment of
pure class, assuming the movie was accurate to how it
really happened.
Hopefully this has given you a few ideas of places where
you can find a date, in addition to some of the tactics you
can use in each scenario. You can find dates anywhere
really. The key is being able to effect a good approach
that will be seen as attractive and charming.
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Patrick has been publishing articles about dating for over
three years. You can check out his latest website at
http://www.visco-elastic-foam-mattress.com
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