Dating Tips: Making Beyond a Regular Guy

The other day I was having lunch with a woman I had
recently met. She was asking me all about my business.

When she first asked me what I do for a living, I told her
straight up. She seemed mildly impressed, but didn't give
the "wow" reaction I usually get.

But as she asked me more questions, I realized that she
didn't understand at first. The more she knew, the more
impressed, and intrigued she became.

One question she asked, that I get a lot, is "what kinds of
guys come to these bootcamps?"

It's a good question, because it allows me to quell a lot
of myths with my answer (and we all know how much I hate
myths).

People make a lot of assumptions about me when they find
out what I do for money. But they make even more
assumptions about my clients.

People think that those taking the Drills are only after to
become a womanizer.

Others think that all my clients must be total losers.

And many think that only a socially awkward nerd would take
such an approach to getting better with women.

The fact is, I've had clients that fit all the above
stereotypes. But 99% of my clients are regular guys.

So what do I mean by "regular guy"?

I've got to know a lot of guys that have similar
motivations and attitudes.

The "average joe" is a jack of all trades. A regular guy
can be a doctor, a student, a mechanic, an entrepreneur.

He can be tall or short, fat or skinny, handsome, homely,
rich, poor, etc.

So what brings all these kinds of guys together for this
common cause?

LOVE OF WOMEN.

That's what it all comes down to.

And that's what people don't get.

If I could give a guy one piece of advice, and I only had
10 seconds, I would say one word.

LOVE.

Love yourself first. You are the most important person to
you.

Even if you have children, you are still number one.

You could say that once you have children, your life
becomes devoted to them. And that's true. But why?

Because that's who YOU are. You take on that intention,
because if you did not, you would feel bad, you would feel
like you were failing yourself and your child, and you were
not doing what you were here to do.

So ultimately it comes back to you - you give to charity,
you take care of others, you try to do good things, because
it makes you feel like you are being yourself, you are
actualizing what is inside of you.

So being that you are the most important person to you, and
your decisions, your thoughts, your actions are all YOURS
and no one else's, you must love yourself and treat
yourself good.

When you are hard on yourself, it has the same effect on
your moral as when a boss abuses his employees.

You must be constructive when you talk. You must have a
healthy diet and lifestyle. And you must make choices that
empower you, and bring you long term success, not short
term indulgence (which always sabotages your future).

And you must love women.

What I teach will not work if you don't love women.

We teach the "pillars" of pickup, that manifest throughout
Drills.

For example, Appreciation.

Appreciation is a focus that applies to, or permeates
rather, all aspects of pickup:

Appreciation in your eyes, in your touch, in your
words...and the best way to apply appreciation holistically
is to cultivate it as a mental habit. The Drills act as a
shortcut to embedding this habit into your mind.

If you are frustrated, angry, jaded, that's ok. You
wouldn't feel that way if you didn't care in the first
place.

Why do girls get under our skin?

Because we care.

Because it is in our nature that we want to give to women
the pleasure, the smile and satisfaction.

It's just part of a man's wiring. It's there, this drive,
and it isn't going anywhere.

So you must go with it and never lose sight of why you are
reading this, why you need to approach a woman at the
grocery store, and why you are going to take a Drills
Bootcamp.

You are doing it so that you can be a better man, so that
you can be a source of love in this world - for yourself,
and for women.

And that's what I tell people when they ask me (sometimes
with a skeptical smirk on their faces), what makes me such
an expert on this topic.

When you love something, the natural evolution is to become
an expert on something. It's very hard to be passionate
about something and not learn as much as you can about it.

I love what I do, and I love women. That's what drives me,
drives this company, and drives my students.

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