First of all, while you can use this time to look at
yourself and where you are in your life, do not do too much
self analysis. The fact behind your boyfriend break up
with you is that he had his own issues. (Notice how I said
his own issues not yours and his.)You know what they say,
it's not you, and it's me. Now, you can spend time trying
to get your ex back. However, you need to take some time
and make sure that this is what you want to. If you hell
bent on going down this route, then you need to know the
following tips:
Do not bug the heck out of your ex - when your boyfriend
breaks up with you, it just means that you have more
restricted access to him. It isn't a very good idea to
text him or call him a lot this will only drive him away
from you. By doing this it will give him a chance to miss
you.
Flirting with other guys can be fun and a great stress
reliever, watch how your ex acts, this will be a good
indication as to how he feels about you. It may even make
him want you back more. Having no contact with him, for the
time being, will be a test for your ex boyfriend. He will
have a chance to see if the break up is what he really
wants. If he isn't sure about breaking up with you,
jealousy will raise its ugly face as you are flirting with
someone new, pay close attention to how your ex acts during
this time, and you will find out real quick if he still
cares about.
On your trial date be very cheerful and fun, don't bring up
any past issues about your relationship just have fun. If
he broke off the romance for personal reasons he probably
has more than he can handle as it is. So keep the date free
and easy. This will work to your advantage, he will be able
to see the person he fell in love.
But, if you have a feeling in your gut that the
relationship is over, when your boyfriends break up with
you, then you need to begin moving on. One of the first
things you can do after your boyfriend break up is to sit
down and write a long letter to him pouring out your heart.
You can talk about the good times and bad. The letter is a
very important item it will give you the opportunity to
relieve some of the stress that you have been caring
around. But, don't mail the letter! Instead, take a
candle out and burn it. To get closure after a break up
will help you move on.
The next thing you need to do is do a property exchange.
Give him back the t-shirt that you love to sleep in. Get
the econ textbook you lent him. If there are things like
toothbrushes that are too trivial to exchange, throw them
away. Don't have anything around that reminds you of him.
Pack away any gifts that your ex boyfriend may have given
you. If you have any money issues to resolve like debts to
the other or a joint checking account, get them sorted out
after you have completed the property exchange; You should
make a agreement with your ex boyfriend not to talk with
one another for 30 days. This may be hard if you are used
to seeing each other on a daily basis, but after a
boyfriend break up it is necessary to give yourself some
space and distance.
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