Most, if not all, serious relationships truly do affect
both parties. So much so, that when or if it ends, the
people involved go through the same five stages of grief
and suffer through lost self-esteem and self-confidence. So
what do they do when they go through a low-time such as
that? Well, they enter a rebound relationship, and if they
are into online dating, then this might be a bit of a
warning for you. And seriously, most girls would not want
to be the rebound girl because rebound girls do not USUALLY
get the man in the end.
You need to learn to trust yourself that you do have a lot
to bring to the relationship. Besides, you can show him and
yourself, that you can help him recover from his previous
relationship by being your fun and wonderful self.
Often, men rush into a relationship after break-ups or
after a divorce because they want to assure themselves that
they can still get someone to like them. It's a self-image
thing. More often than not, men see it as a personal
failure when a relationship ends. So, they try to
compensate for their emotional loss through having another
relationship. Thus, a rebound relationship.
How can you tell if your date is on the rebound? And no,
there's no definite way of knowing this beforehand. The
best advice that I can give is to observe the subtle signs
that he is sending out. If he always pressures you to move
faster into the relationship, then there's an off chance
that he's on the rebound and is looking for someone to be
with him soon. You can also check if he mentions past
relationships in his profile and status. Then check out his
status and observe things like if he just recently got
divorced or gotten out of a relationship recently.
Now, a rebound relationship isn't all bad. No. in some
ways, you will be of help to the person in moving on and
such. And remember that if a rebound relationship does
develop, it is nonetheless, still a relationship, and it
was there because you guys had something in common. Also,
men on a rebound tend to shower you with attention. Why?
Because they don't want to feel bored or lonely.
However, it isn't always rainbows. For one thing, these
questions would plague you "Does he compare me to his ex?
How do I measure up?" at the back of your head. And if
these questions continue to bother you, then naturally, you
can't fully give yourself into the relationship. Another
thing is that your sugardaddie hasn't really given that
much thought. He still needs time to evaluate his past
relationship and where it went wrong before he can manage
to start a new one. If he fails to realize where the past
relationship failed, then I doubt if he can make new ones
successful.
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