Don't become too lax and comfortable in online dating that
you don't meet your online matches. Because a real, live
relationship does not work that way.
Now, I know that this would be truly hard for some, but
let's face it, the reason why you engaged in millionaire
dating, to find someone that you can have with you in a
long-term relationship.
But how do you make the transition from online to offline?
Actually, the transition is where men fail big time. It is
quite easy in fact, to be stuck in the rut of exchanging
emails endlessly, without foreseeing a future with the one
you're exchanging the emails with. At some point, as the
woman, you would have to stop emailing him back if you feel
like it is not really going anywhere.
Why, you ask, do you need to get off this endless email
cycle? Simple. You can't generate attraction through email
alone.
It has never happened before, nor would it happen now.
Attraction and chemistry is what happens in live
face-to-face meetings. The goal of each online dater should
be to set a date in the real world before the giddiness of
discovery dies.
Alright, so first thing's first though, do not be too
aggressive and/or eager on setting the first date, and
never ever suggest meeting face-to-face in the first email.
Why? Because this may sound off the alarm bells in the
ladies head, right ladies. Indeed, there exists a delicate
balance between endless emailing and aggressive behavior.
Here are some baby steps that you can take to make an
online relationship, offline:
1. Make totally sure that your ideal date you are meeting
feels right for you. Compare his answers from the ones
written on his profiles. Note his language and reactions to
different situations.
2. Make sure that you have totally passed the email stage
before going to the IM and phone and then agreeing to meet
him. Why? Simply put, you would really feel more
comfortable this way.
3. Make sure that you have enough "experience" with the
person you are chatting to online. Meaning that you should
have at LEAST exchanged 3 or more emails, 30 or more
minutes on IM, and 10 minutes or more on the phone. This
would work better than if you exchange hundreds of emails.
This is because a person can still think when writing
emails, but with IMs and phone calls, their answers become
more impromptu and less rehearsed.
Still waiting for the transition period? Well, if your
instinct is telling you to just go ahead and meet up with
the millionaire match of your dreams (whom you already have
a good experience) and relationship conversation online
anyway) then do so!
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