Why Attraction Doesn't Always Mean Sleeping with Her

I never stop learning in this game.

One thing I've realized in the past couple years is how
true the following statement is:

A woman can be attracted to you, but still decide not to
sleep with you.

Makes no sense!

I mean, as a guy, if I think a woman is hot, I want to
sleep with her, without question.

Actually, I have to admit, that's not always true.

I've said this before, and it may sound weird, but my
reality nowadays is more like that of a hot women's life,
than the average guy (except for the video games and body
hair).

What I mean is, when it comes to women I have so many
options that I end up turning them down.

And even if I'm really attracted to a girl, there are times
when I've not pursued her because what I had at home was
way better.

Having options leads to having great women in your life -
the best in fact.

So I never feel desperate to be in bed with any new women.
Of course, I do, but only if it doesn't inconvenience me.

This is why a lot of times a women will feel hot for a guy,
but won't let it go further than small talk. Maybe she has
a great husband, or is seeing too many guys and doesn't
want to complicate her life.

But when it comes to women there are other reasons.

Women are different than men in that they can actually turn
mating off for a while. I've met so many girls who told me
that they have been in a point where they were so
frustrated with men that they just turned off that intimacy
so they could take a break.

I don't think this is something a lot of guys do, at least
not regularly.

This is why it's so important to be well-versed in every
aspect of the game. You never have an idea what you're
going to be facing until you meet the next girl.

If you know how to differentiate yourself from other guys,
you will overcome this "intimacy off switch" if that's her
issue.

If she is seeing a lot of other guys, the same thing
applies. You need to know how to persist in a way that
separates you from all the other guys she's seeing.

Here's the good news - all those guys are doing the same
lame crap, so it's really not that hard to look like the
best option for her.

But this involves some stuff you may not have any knowledge
or experience of.

It's easy to get a number. But the odds of that number
actually amounting to you sleeping with her depend on many
factors.

If you have been going out regularly, working on your
skills, I commend you. That's more than most guys ever do.

But I know that when I was in that crucial learning phase,
where I was gaining more confident, and skyrocketing my
social intelligence, I reached an impasse.

I could confidently approach a group of women, and get the
hottest one engaged in a one-on-one conversation.

I'd get the number, and call her a couple days later. But
the same thing would happen every time.

It was so frustrating to go out night after night, spark
massive attraction, only to have it all be for nothing.

If I only have an idea then what I know now.

It took a lot of studying female psychology, plus tons of
trial and error, just to get on the right track (and boy
was I on the wrong one at the beginning).

Imagine wanting to go out 25% as much as you do now, but
having MORE dates that lead to bed?

Skyrocket your conversion rate, before another wasted night.

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