Let's be clear - relationships can be complicated. To have
a long-term strong and stable relationship, both parties
involved need to recognise that they need to work at it.
This means that each person must come to terms with the
fact that there's no such thing as a 'perfect
relationship'; there is always the possibility of
relationships problems, and that it takes consistent effort
by both partners to ensure that a relationship goes the
distance.
Anyone who has been in a relationship has likely had
relationships problems. These problems can arise because of
a number of things. One thing that can cause strife is when
either one or both parties do not take the time to listen
to and understand the other's perspective.
It's easy to just say 'you need to see it from the other
person's perspective' but that's often easily said and not
so easily done. When you have a strong perspective on
things, it is often difficult to let go of that to look at
the situation from how your partner is seeing it. But you
must really try! There are many different reasons why both
parties often find it difficult to understand the other
party's perspective.
1. Sometimes it is because there is something from another
part of a person's life that is causing stress and
unhappiness. This often causes a general negative outlook,
and the unwillingness to be flexible, loving and forgiving.
It is best not to discuss heavy issues during these times.
2. Lack of communication can also cause one person not to
understand the other's perspective. Communication is key in
a relationship. It's clear; the more you communicate your
thoughts and feelings to one another, the more
understanding you will have.
3. Unresolved anger with issues in the relationship can
also cause relationships problems. When one or both of you
is upset with the other person, it can result in a negative
attitude and response to each other.
4. Another emotion, such as jealousy, can cause the person
experiencing the emotion to be less trustful or open with
their partner. To be able to see something from someone
else's point of view, one has to be willing to do so. When
strong emotions surface they tend to cloud an individual's
judgment.
In order to avoid relationships problems, it is important
to communicate with your partner, and to listen openly and
non judgmentally to everything he or she has to tell you.
If you have an issue with the information he or she has
given you, try to discuss your concerns in a diplomatic
manner and a calm, even tone. Remember why you are in the
relationship, and make efforts to work toward happiness for
both of you.
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