Love and relationships never run smooth, regardless of how
you might think they do for some people. Everyone in their
relationship at some time has challenges and the love gets
put into question. It's then people need to seek out advice
and help in their relationships to re-discover new ways to
keep their relationship alive, or perhaps simply recreate
that spark that may have become absent from what was once a
loving relationship.
Don't worry; there is plenty of relationship advice
available and there are many different approaches one can
take to improving his or her relationship. However,
sometimes it is difficult to identify what's required to be
fixed on your own. That said, don't think all advice is
'good advice' - advice is very personal and subjective;
what works for some folks does not necessarily work for
others. A key factor to consider when seeking advice is be
guided by what others' opinion is of the person giving the
advice. Always try to 'take advice' from someone who has
been recommended by someone you trust and respect - even
better if it's from someone who too has had to seek help in
solving their relationship problems.
Here are some quick ideas from us about what we've learned
about relationships:
Idea #1: If an argument occurs, avoid negative statements
such as, "You never.." or "You always...". These type of
statements are unfair and will get you nowhere with your
partner. You should think of positive ways to voice your
concerns, and use "I" statements.
Idea #2: Never forget a successful relationship takes the
effort of both partners. Relationships are always a work in
progress.
Idea #3: One really satisfying trick is to write down all
the wonderful things that you love about your partner.
Then, pull it out and read it when you are having a
difficult time. Reading about the positives will help
motivate you to put more effort into your working
positively on the relationship.
Idea #4: Whether you use text messaging or email, learn!
Taking a little time to send a text message or an email to
your partner that simply says, "I love you" can be highly
impacting in a good way - it's the smallest gesture that
can often mean the most.
Idea #5: Pick your moment wisely to talk through serious
issues with your partner. Things will go much more smoothly
if your partner is not irritated, tired or generally low.
Also, look around your family and friends and see if
there's any couples you know in a successful relationship
or marriage, who may be able to offer you advice on
relationships. Yes, you might hear similar advice as we're
offering here but that will just reaffirm the importance of
these little ideas. Obviously you will need to decide which
pieces of advice you think will work for you and your
partner, and then apply them.
And remember that if your partner respects and loves you,
and seriously is committed to overcoming any and all
hurdles in your relationship, he or she will likely follow
your lead and begin to be more positive, loving and
communicative. It's then it becomes a win-win situation for
both parties.
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Steve & Louise have experienced the relationship problems
many face at some point, and in an effort to find answers
to their problems, they spent months researching the vast
array of relationship help and advice products, identifying
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