We somehow feel that awkward moment during the first few
minutes of meeting our date. But of course, we eventually
get the hang of it. To help get you through those
occasionally awkward first few minutes of a 'date,' here is
a Super simple dating advice. Although it can be used at
any time throughout the meeting.
We call it: 'Ipod for 2'
Now this technique works in almost any environment and most
situations.
So here's a scenario: You've just met a girl by the subway
station near your house. (you got her to come to meet you
right?:) It is your first 'date' and you are wearing an
Ipod. You say your Hello's, and begin some playful banter.
Step 1: As you are walking along the street towards your
destination, you say "Oh Wow, you have got to listen to
this."
And hand her just one of the earbuds. (If you're feeling
bold, go ahead and stick it in her ear for her;) The key is
that the other earbud stays in your ear, preferably the one
closer to her...
Step 2: Play whatever song you want. The trick is to
share something with her that you genuinely enjoy listening
to and are hopefully even passionate about. Just don't
play U2's, "With or Without You" because that would just be
lame.
In fact, to be on the safe side, stay away from anything
too lovey dovey sounding.
Step 3: Just be with her as the music plays and keep
heading towards your destination. (Doesn't matter if
you're stationary or sitting down btw)
The benefit of this technique is twofold;
1. You are sharing something with her that has meaning to
you. This sets the stage for her to share something
personal back.
2. It isn't possible to share Ipod headphones and NOT be
constantly touching the person you're sharing them with...
The more music you play her, the more comfortable she is
getting with your touch. And it is totally incidental! (How
else could you both listen?)In other words, you have a
legitimate and excusable reason to be that physically close
to her. 'Ipod for 2' is one of the most simple yet
effective dating tips for men that you can even use it
anytime throughout the interaction, so don't feel obligated
to try it at the very beginning.
In fact, if the date is going well it has much more
potential impact when used after some initial bonding has
occurred.
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