Don't you feel anxious towards a girl even just talking
with her on the phone? If not entirely, there could be
times when you get into an awkward topic, or that you may
feel tensed or pressured in a certain moment. Some girls
tend to be really dominant especially in a conversation,
and this is just on the phone. That's why some guys would
get intimidated by them.
So this time I'm going to give you one of the most simple
dating tips that will instantly pump up your phone game...
This technique is called: 'Sit Like A Procurer'
Yeah, you read right, but bear with me for a minute.
Just before you call a lady you may be interested in (or
perhaps she's calling you), it is extremely helpful to sit
down, and get into a comfortable 'Procurer-like' physical
position. If you are not sure what that looks like go
watch 'Hustle n' Flow' or turn on BET.
The key to finding your own personal inner Procurer is one
thing:
Comfort. Physical comfort is your gauge. If you like to
sit in the couch with your legs crossed, then go ahead. I
personally like to lean back, stretch my legs out, and take
up as much space as I want.
If you have a plush couch or comfy chair (or anything
really) go ahead and give this technique a try RIGHT NOW.
Maybe grab a rocks glass and try it with a drink in your
hand if it helps. Practice it until you've got it.
Phase 2: Now call a girl you've been interested in, but
make sure you are 'Sittin' like a Procurer.' Stay in
position throughout the phone call and notice if and when
you begin to reflexively change into a less comfortable
position.
What you will probably find in this dating advice is that
this new 'Procurer-like' physical position is going to
accomplish two things:
A) It will automatically put you into a more dominant and
relaxed frame. This will give you a clearer mind that will
make you think of some appropriate conversational skills to
use towards her.
B) It will help to relieve any excess anxiety you may be
experiencing over calling her.
Remember: If you are really physically relaxed, it is a lot
harder to experience emotional distress.
WARNING: Do not take this too far! The exercise is 'Sit
like a Procurer' NOT 'Smack her in the face if she don't
got my loot!'
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