The notion that most foreign women who look to find love
online want to marry an American, Canadian or European in
order to gain citizenship to their country has been hyped
up to a frenzy in the media to create scandal and increase
T.V. ratings. The reality is, most foreign women who search
online for a friend, lover, or husband are well educated
with deeply cemented roots to their family. They live very
happy lives at home. What they are missing is a man to
love, be affectionate with and with whom they can create a
family of their own.
In most cases foreign women would prefer if the man moved
to be with them instead of them having to leave their home
country. Of course this does not usually happen because the
men are not willing or immediately able to make the move.
So the women make the sacrifice to leave friends, family
and country behind in the hopes of succeeding with the man
they have chosen to support and love.
With the U.S. National divorce rate at over 45 percent many
men today ask themselves, "How do I choose a partner where
both of us can be happy together until death do us part?"
The following 3 steps can be a successful quick-start guide
to the men who seek love and romance outside of the United
States. They help answer the question of "can I really find
my true love?"
Becoming Scam Proof- Don't Be A Victim
Most men who look to find love online are worried the girls
they meet will scam them. But most of the women online have
the best of intentions and the sweetest of dreams when it
comes to meeting the right man. What you really need to
watch out for is the agencies who use bait-and-switch
tactics, charge ridiculously high fees and don't deliver on
their promises. If you are using an honest marriage agency
the small chance of finding a dishonest woman gets even
smaller. However, the bigger threat of scam lays in the
marriage agencies themselves.
Be very careful of agencies and paid sites that do not
offer a minimum 30-day money back guarantee. Watch for very
high prices for introductions; be sure to compare pricing
against several agencies and sites. If you pick 3 or 4
girls you find attractive but the agency does not have
their information on hand or can not offer proof they
delivered your message to her, be on the alert! They are
most likely using models for pictures to bait you in and
then switch to the women that are available but you are not
attracted to. Avoid any company with sales pressure trying
to convince you to join a "romance tour." Stick to agencies
with several customer testimonials, whose prices are
reasonable compared to other services, who offer proof of
delivery and most importantly who successfully introduce
you to the women you like.
Avoiding getting ripped off by a girl you meet is really
easy and a matter of common sense. Think of it this way...
let us say you know for a fact your soul mate and
one-true-love is waiting in a room on the fifth floor of a
building. And you have the exact address to this building
along with the keys to get in, however; the building is
located in the worst part of East L.A. and you have to walk
across the hood the get to her. Common sense will get you
to her and back safely, you don't need an army or even a
gun. Just good judgment. You would not talk about yourself
on the way there; you would not brag of being rich or wear
jewelry with hundred dollar bills hanging out of your
pockets as you made your way to her. It is the same when
communicating with women online.
Don't brag or boast about yourself. Do not send her money.
Get this straight, a real woman who really cares about you
is not going to ask you for any amount of money for any
reason (including for the internet bill so she can chat
with you). If she is asking you for money before you guys
have met, let her go. And if she has agreed to marry you
but you have not kissed and she wants to wait till you are
married to kiss, let her go. Foreign women are exotic, they
are not aliens. The normal ones act just like other normal
women, they are proud (and will not request financing),
they are affectionate (and will want to kiss and hug you)
they are intelligent (they will want to earn your trust and
offer you their confidence) so if you experience anything
out of sorts or weird, let it be a red flag. When you have
enough red flags let her go. There is an endless stream of
fine women, who are looking for the right man, don't let
your woman miss her chance because you got hell-bent on
some con-artist who took you for a ride. Now that said,
there are not many women scamming out there for marriage
and dating and some that are, are not women, they are men
posing as women.
Don't Fall In Love- Not Yet
When first looking outside of the United States for love it
can be easy to flip head-over-heals for the first or second
foreign woman you meet! Even if you are only speaking on
the phone or via letters, foreign women have an allure
which can hysterically alter your senses like never before,
so take your time. There are many women to meet and
traveling is a big part of discovering for yourself who
your soul-mate is. If possible develop a friendship with a
few girls and prepare for a trip. Until then Cyber Date.
Get to know these girls by taking advantage of technology,
get creative. Use free instant video chat and free calls
with services such as Skype and or minimum cost calls with
devices like Magic Jack. You can do all sorts of things
including watching movies together, exchange video letters
and more. Once you have spent sometime getting to meet high
quality women, get ready for a face to face.
Get on a plane and get closer to your new friends. Plan as
long a trip as possible; you will want all the time to
spend with the girls you have been getting to know. Be sure
to slowly take in the new foreign world you have been
dropped in the middle of. Some guys rush in and do strike
gold. They meet a woman right away, fall in love and are
making wedding arrangements within 10 days. Do not force
this type of outcome no matter how badly you want it. Love
is not a speed dating round, it could start at one, but it
grows with time. Be patient, she is there and waiting. Once
you meet a girl who stands out from the rest, who really is
the woman you are looking for, then you are ready. Now go
for it!
Falling In Love- Going For It
The majority of women with a profile online are educated
women whose minds and hearts are flooded with creative
energy, passion and the purest of desires for themselves
and their other half. They are looking for love, just like
you.
Once you have spent time getting to know your girl, you
have flown to meet her and her family at least once and you
both have spoken clearly about your goals, dreams and life
pursuits it could be the grand beginning. If you feel that
special enchantment over you, it could be you are in love
and ready for a life together. Go for it!
Fall in love, follow your heart and see for yourself how
sweet life becomes with the foreign girl you met online who
magically filled your life with a force of inspiration.
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--Carlos Duran is a professional writer raised on the mean
streets of New York during the 80's crack era. His life
transformation inspired him to help others find love and
their soul mates over the internet. His website
http://www.foreignwomen.answersyoucanuse.com is dedicated
to helping men find women for marriage, love and friendship
online.
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