Getting girls is not that difficult. There are men out
there, we've all seen them, who, although not particularly
attractive, educated, or even well off, seem to attract
women without even trying. What is the secret? Is it their
cologne? Is it their pick-up lines? No. It's none of these.
And it's not even a secret.
Women find one thing, above all else, incredibly
attractive: confidence. So, if you're trying to get a
particular woman interested in you, then create a situation
in which you are doing something you are very good at! Make
sure she sees you in a situation in which you exude
confidence. A guy who may be a bumbling dork in a club, may
look like a competent, confident expert when he is seen in
an environment that suits him.
Here's an example. A guy we know, Keith, kept striking out
with women in clubs. All around him, guys seemed to know
how to do it. They'd all go out together, and Keith would
have to get a taxi home! He wasn't less attractive, and the
fact was, he had a better job, more education, and a bigger
heart. He just didn't feel right in a loud, raucous club.
When we approached Keith with the idea that he try meeting
girls in an environment that flattered him, he thought
about it for awhile, and decided to invite some people from
his office to one of his Saturday rugby games. He set it up
like a party, and afterward took everyone for pizza. Not
only did this improve his image at the office, but several,
great girls were able to see Keith do something he was
really, really good at!
"Nowhere in the world do I feel more at home than I do on a
rugby field," Keith said. His confidence showed, and he was
able to successfully date several different women, until he
ended up with his steady girlfriend, Rhonda.
Keith's story is a prime example of this easy "formula",
For most of us, guys and girls alike, the club scene
doesn't highlight our best side! It's late, we're tired,
we're not used to drinking that much, the loud music, or
the incredible atmosphere of competition - just to meet
somebody we like.
Consider your options, in fact, get pencil and paper and
make a list of the things you know you do well. Don't ask
yourself how confident you feel about them, or whether they
would be good things to share with others, just list them.
Don't be shy. Tell the truth. Don't be shy about saying, or
showing, that you're good at something. When you're
finished, look at each entry, and find a way for each one
to play out in a social setting. Are you great at
mechanics? Offer to teach several women you go to school
with how to change their oil. Make an afternoon of it. Can
you play tennis? Surf? Play chess? Cards? Basketball? Are
you great with kids? Take a woman with you on an outing
with kids. That's the kind of confidence that is incredibly
attractive, and that women find hard to resist.
Stop competing in a world that isn't yours! Bring the women
to you. Show them your strength in a setting you love. This
is the ultimate aphrodisiac.
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A. E. Bates writes about men, women, and relationships. For
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