A lot of guys are accused of having trouble coming up with
romantic date ideas. Unfortunately there is usually good
reason for this. Well, not anymore. Here is an inexpensive
date that is extremely romantic and, best of all, you'll
learn how to give her the best kiss she's ever had in the
process.
Here's what you'll need: mints, hard candies, light fruits
(like strawberries, grapes, pineapple, watermelon),
chocolate (but use sparingly), water, bottle of white wine
(red can cause breath issues), candles and something to
light them with, soft music, blanket to sit on and a baby
sitter if kids are in the picture (arrange this at least 2
days before the date).
Location: In the house or the park or anywhere you will
have privacy
The Date: This date is very simple, but needs to be handled
with delicacy. The whole premise is to get both of your
juices flowing. This will seem really corny to most men,
but you'll get huge points for doing it! This is one date
you will want to practice, practice, practice!
Here is the set up; tell your girl that you want to give
her the best kiss she's ever had. Let her know that you
have an interesting date planned and tell her the theme of
the date is to find the perfect kiss for the two of you.
For example, you may want to tell her the following or
something similar with your own spin: "I would like to have
picnic style date on the floor with candles, wine, and a
romantic conversation about the perfect kiss between the
two of us.....Interested?"
If there are kids in the picture, make sure to get a
sitter. One of the best ways to make sure you always have a
sitter available is to talk to your girl and see if the two
of you can babysit for a neighbor, friend or family member
another time - making babysitting into a family event can
score you great points.
Set the scene with the blanket, the candles, and the music.
Start the perfect kiss date with small talk and pour the
wine. Shortly after you get started tell her about your
favorite kiss that the two of you have shared, then invite
her to share her story.
Now the fun begins. Basically you talk and let her tell you
what to do, then practice. Try it with different flavors
and letting her coach you. You should also share your
thoughts of what she can do to please you!
Words of warning: Do not expect your first kiss to be the
magic bullet. Do not get impatient. Let it happen and it
will. Take your time and be very open to her coaching; she
is simply playing the game you created. If she does not
give you any guidance, she is afraid to hurt your feelings
and needs you to encourage her. You should make it
absolutely OK for her to say anything and correct you in
any way to help create that perfect kiss. If you let your
little Nancy Boy ego get in the way, this date will go
south in a hurry. It is not personal; it is a game and
should be FUN!
The impact of this date can be huge if it is handled
delicately. Plan to take your time and make it into an
entire night of talking about and practicing the perfect
kiss the two of you are going to create with each other,
then let it flow to wherever it takes the two of you! You
can do this date every six months or so to keep the kissing
hot. If you're lucky, she'll be the one that asks to repeat
this date.
Trust us on this one, your brain will be screaming that
this is the corniest thing in the world, but if it is out
of your character it will be that much stronger. As long as
you are willing to take some guidance you'll find out how
to give her the best kiss she's ever had over and over!
Nothing will make her hotter!
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Phil Gilliam is a published author, relationship expert and
the driving force behind AverageGuy.com. Visit
http://www.AverageGuy.com to get many more date ideas along
with relationship advice, tips on communication, exercises
to build confidence and much more.
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