Easy Opportunities to Meet Women

Are you missing easy opportunities to approach women?

I love bars...a bunch of drunk obnoxious people packed like
sardines in a dirty noisy room...what's not to love!

Just in case you couldn't tell, I'm being sarcastic.

I actually don't mind bars and nightclubs on certain
occasions - like when I'm getting together with friends for
some drinks.

And hey, I can't really complain about the bar scene - it's
where I cut my teeth learning pickup.

If it wasn't for bars and clubs, I'd probably be banned
from every bookstore, mall, and coffee shop in Boston.

A lot of my students - especially those over 30 - talk
about how frustrating the bar scene is, and how they'd like
to meet women in other places.

I'm guessing you probably feel the same way.

Not that bars are inherently bad, or there's something
wrong with meeting women there...

It's just that something about it
feels...forced...fake...there's just something about
meeting someone in a bar that doesn't go along with the
romantic fantasy of meeting someone special.

Guess what?

Women feel the same way!

That's the good news.

The bad news is this...and this is coming from asking tons
and tons of women...

Women don't expect to be approached during the day, or in
any other environment besides the bar.

Truth is, they are really shocked and surprised if a guy
walks with them and strikes up a conversation in a regular
place like in the street or e even in store.

So if you approach a woman somewhere outside of the bar,
you're going to be talking to someone who isn't "mentally
prepared" to have an engaged conversation.

But don't worry - all this means is you'll have to lead
most of the conversation, and there's a chance you'll get a
funny reaction from her at first.

Not a big deal.

But think about what she can tell her friends...

"Oh my god...so the other day, as I go to Subway for my
lunch, there was this GUY walks up out of nowhere and told
me I was beautiful and he had to meet me...

I was like 'okaaaay' because it was kind of random...but he
turned out to be really sweet and funny...

It was SO REFRESHING to be approached that way...instead of
stared at or hear some lame line from a drunk dumbass."

That's real talk man...that's how women describe it.

I'm telling you, you are missing TONS of opportunities in
meeting women if you don't know how to do it in a day to
day situations.

But the thing is...we are taught that the place to meet
women is in bars, or at parties, or through friends.

I mean, how many guys do you know who can just strike up a
conversation with a woman ANYWHERE?

I don't know any, other than fellow pickup artists, guys
I've trained.

You see, it's a special "talent" or "skill" to be able to
do something like that.

In Western Culture, that is rare.

There's a stigma against talking to strangers.

Remember as a kid, you were literally taught not to talk to
strangers?

It was good advice then, but not so much now.

This is a natural thing to understand.

They realize that women like being approached, and that
it's actually really easy to create instant attraction.

These guys don't have any special knowledge - they haven't
studied pickup like you or I have.

They just have a belief system, a way they think that is
conducive to meeting and attracting women.

You can't adopt this mindset, and this belief system just
from reading and hearing guys talk about it.

It must be FELT, INTERNALIZED...you must experience it for
yourself.

When I realized this, I set out to design a program that
would help guys have these realizations for themselves.

Years ago when I got into the field of coaching guys to be
pickup artists, all my competitors were teaching through
lectures.

But when you think about it, if you've ever learned
something, you did exercises.

You have to DO the thing you are LEARNING for YOURSELF!

We all have mental blocks to achieving our goals.

Maybe you had some rough experiences early on, or maybe you
just lack experience.

But either way, what you need is NEW EXPERIENCE.

You've made the TRANSFORMATION WITHIN

It took me a long time to realize something.

It's NORMAL to approach women, almost ANYWHERE.

I mean, maybe not at a funeral...but then again even that's
not unheard of.

Ok, if she's standing outside watching her house burn
down...probably not a good time.

CREATE A BIG IMPACT when you approach a woman in a
non-bar/club places.

And it's so easy to make such a big impact - as long as
your focus is in the right place, engaging and escalating
with a woman is a breeze.

Plus - she'll not forget you for life, because almost NO
GUYS DO THIS.

I have to admit, I've met, dated, and slept with TONS of
women that I met in the bar or club.

But these days, I find myself just striking up
conversations everywhere - from the store, to the coffee
shop, to a park near my house where I sometimes I take a
jog.

It's SO EASY.

Plus, I don't have time to go out 5 nights a week.

My body can't take the late hours, and the almost
unavoidable alcohol one consumes in a bar.

But more than anything, I don't like having to go out of my
way, get dressed up, and deal with the loud, drunken crowd
night after night.

What if on your way to the Post Office you could meet your
next girlfriend?

What if you could take a woman home from a local diner?

What if every day offered new and surprisingly easy
opportunities to meet women?

Transform yourself into a guy who does this NATURALLY, just
by being yourself...

Your FULLEST, TRUST SELF.

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