Once you engage in millionaire dating, your emotions and
feelings are engaged too, and so does the other person's.
For this reason, rejection should be handled with
discretion.
There are lots of different ways on how to reject a person,
you don't feel there is a connection with. But before you
go on rejecting someone in online millionaire dating, you
must ask yourself two questions: First, don't you really
want to get that person better? And second, what are the
grounds on why you want to reject him? If you have a sound
answer (an answer which sounds plausible to yourself and to
a friend that you can consult with), then you can go on
kindly, yet firmly, rejecting that person online.
You've felt the connection during the exchange of e-mails,
but you just can't feel that the prospect is a possible
match through your Instant Messages. What do you do? Here
are a few tips on what to do and for good measure, what not
to do when rejecting someone in the middle of an Instant
Messaging exchange:
What to do:
The best thing to do is to send a message that goes, "I'm
sorry. I enjoyed chatting with you. But I have to stop
because I just don't think that we can be a match. I don't
want to waste any more of your time. Wishing you lots of
success on your search!" That's it. The message is clear,
short, and polite, which is what you must aim for always.
If the other person replies to insist that No, you are
wrong! We are a match? Simply do not reply and do not send
any more messages.
What not to do:
1. Saying, "GTG!" then logging off. For those of you who
aren't familiar with IM-speak, GTG stands for "Got To Go."
I particularly don't like this because once both of you
have a current conversation, it is kind of rude if you just
went and pull of a stunt like this. I mean, you wouldn't
like it either if you were talking to someone on the phone
and the other person says, "Gotta run!" then slams the
phone down on you now without giving you the chance to say
good-bye, would you?
2. Logging off and stopping the conversation. This is
called "poofing" in the internet world and it is just as
bad the first one. Besides, if you do this, you don't
provide closure, and the other person would just continue
to contact you, so it's best that you just spell it out,
kindly yet firmly, that you don't want to continue
contacting each other anymore.
3. Replying with obscenities or anger. It's nobody's fault
that you both just don't click! It just maybe the two of
you are missing that magical connection. Anger and
obscenities should never be a response. Do not leave mad
nor should you let the other person do so too.
Professional online dating and looking for your wealthy,
single, and successful match, are enjoyable activities that
you need to invest an amount of time and effort in.
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Practice rejection etiquette and be positive in your search
for Mr. Right! You may need to go through a few frogs, but
no doubt, you'll find your Prince Charming in the end.
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