Battered women, who are victims of spousal legal abuse,
tell me, "The courts and attorneys don't get it!" These
women truly believe that the court agents don't understand
domestic abuse. But the fact is the divorce lawyers and
family court agents do understand. They most definitely get
it!
The one who doesn't get it is the battered woman. I
certainly understand how that is and why they don't get it.
Read on because the sooner you get it, the sooner you will
help yourself.
Reality of Legal Help for Abuse
You see domestic violence survivors turn to the legal
system to help protect them and their children from abuse.
Sounds reasonable, right?
BUT here's what happens... The legal system lifts up the
family veil and sees all this ugly mess. They think they
are looking at "bad boys" and "crazy girls." Or, at least
that's what the respective parties tell them.
Since these legal folks, employed by the domestic violence
family, must eat and need shelter like everyone else, a fee
is tied to their services.
Now the person who holds the key to the family purse is the
one who has inherent ability to turn on and off the money
spigot. And this financially fortified fellow can direct
the cash flow as he desires.
Inside Story for the Legal Helpers
What usually happens is the divorce attorneys must find a
way to keep all of the employed individuals paid to some
extent to keep "the party" going. But the day comes when
the litigants tire, or self-destruct, or their family well
dries up.
And on this day, the tide turns...big time. And the
battered women and their counsel are left in the wake. As
the domestic violence survivors struggle to swim
afloat...they shout, "The attorneys and the courts don't
get it!"
You see, they know they are the abused and they remain
perplexed as to how it is and why it is that these legal
folks didn't protect them from abuse.
Ray of Hope for Battered Women
There is a way to reach out for help and navigate the
system, without drowning in the wake. You must see the
system for what it is and use it to your advantage.
You must recognize you are a player in a larger puzzle and
you have a place in the system. You can weather this storm
and even make it to the other side without becoming
penniless, homeless and childless. You MUST get it, before
it gets you1
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For more information about spousal legal abuse, visit
http://www.preventabusiverelationships.com/legal_domestic_ab
use.php and claim your Free Instant Access to Survivor
Success eInsights. Psychologist Dr. Jeanne King, Ph.D.
helps domestic abuse survivors block legal-psychiatric
abuse in divorce and custody cases nationwide. Copyright
2009 Jeanne King, Ph.D.
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