When to Approach The Womean

Are you lacking some abilities to catch on the signal that
women are giving you?

I'm sure you've seen these commercials aimed at men.
They're usually pitching some product that has absolutely
nothing with dating or women.

For example, deodorant, gum, a car, even FOOD. There's
some doofus with a movie star haircut and chiseled jaw
standing there with his super-stuffed burrito in hand, with
two model-looking women looking at him like he just gave
them 10 orgasms a piece.

The message is, "Eat this burrito and girls will love you."

Or those gum commercials, where the guy pops a stick of gum
in his mouth, and all of a sudden, some super-model looks
over at him like he's her favorite flavor popsicle.

"Chew gum, chicks dig it."

I find this both funny and sad.

Funny because of how ridiculous the message is.

Sad because this crap actually gets into guys' brains after
repeated exposure. The TV is a brainwashing machine.

But these ads bring up a really important topic.

What kind of signals do women really send us guys?

In the past, I would assume that if a girl didn't twirl her
hair, twinkle her eyes, and smile shyly, that she wasn't
into me.

I literally thought that women sent signals like this to
guys if they were attracted to him.

Now I know exactly what to look for. I see the matrix, and
let me tell you, there are signals EVERYWHERE.

Not a day goes by that I notice a signal to approach from a
woman. Women are constantly inviting me to talk to them, or
at least letting me know that they are attracted.

But here's the thing - most of the time they aren't aware
of what they are doing.

Women's signals are very much like "poker tells."

If you are an experienced poker player, you'll know that
most players will do some kind of unconscious action that
gives away what kind of hand they have.

It can be in the twinkle of their eye, adjusting their
seat, or maybe talking beyond normal.

Women do the same thing. And it really takes a strong
intuition to pick it up.

Lots of mis-reads and screw-ups and it took years of
experience to fine-tune my 'signal radar.'

One of the main things we discuss in The Attraction Code is
how to notice windows and how to respond to them.

We break down the female psychology behind this phenomenon,
which will allow you to apply the principle to any scenario.

This way, you can develop your own style using the general
formula to help you strengthen your radar.

For instance, one thing women will do is preen themselves,
although it's usually much more subtle than you think.

It can be something slight, like checking themselves out in
the mirror briefly to make sure they look WELL.

Or it can be a flattening of their blouse to ensure their
tummy isn't sticking out.

The key is to notice when they do this. Is it right when
you walk up, or just after you look over?

Watch for the little ways women tighten up or reveal a
self-conscious focus when you come into their awareness.

The world will look like a land of opportunity when you get
the hang of this.

If you've seen the Mel Gibson movie, "What Women Want," you
will know the kind of power you'll have

In a sense you'll be able to read women's thoughts, at
least about whether or not they are attracted to you.

It's too bad that we're not taught this stuff when we're
young. As guys, we aren't even taught to LOOK for signals.

Instead we are orient to DISPLAY signals that will able
women to choose us.

Here are some of the implicit messages bombarding men:

Lift weights until your muscles are so big that women
approach you.

Work 80 hours a week so you can get a nice car, and then
women will throw themselves at you.

Buy that kind of deodorant, get that kind of cell-phone,
eat that burrito.

Use this pickup line.

Say this joke.

Be confident, be funny, be in top physical shape, be rich.

Be perfect, have everything.

Only then women will like you and approach you.

It's all bogus.

Guess what - women RARELY, if ever approach. So if that's
your plan, you'll be waiting a long time.

Men are so busy trying to signal women to come talk to them
that they completely miss the obvious signals women give
them to approach or take things to the next level.

And all it takes is a simple shift of focus.

Your focus is like your path. You lay out your path through
intention, and your focus is the journey on that path.

If the path you're on isn't taking you where you want to
go, let us lay a new path out for you.

Only YOU can walk the path.

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