Why Women are Scared of You?

I did shoplifting when I was a teenager. I just did it for
a couple of times but I can still remember how nervous I am.

I was in the mall, at a clothing store, about to carry out
a plan to steal a sweater.

A friend of mine had told me how to do it. You take a pile
of shirts into the dressing room, and put one of them on
under your shirt. Then I just walked out as if nothing had
happen (this was before the time of alarms and cameras).

As I entered the store, I got very nervous. I wandered
around, trying my best to "look normal," and wandered
probably every aisle looking over all the stuff as if I
planned to buy something.

I was extremely self-conscious and paranoid, thinking that
all the sales people were watching me.

And I was stalling - I kept procrastinating until the
"perfect moment."

After circling the store twice, I finally got some shirts
and went into dressing room. I put the sweater on, put my
shirt over it, and stood there, terrified of what came next.

Finally I walked out, and, trying not to sprint, walked
briskly towards the entrance.

And then I was outside. Whew!

The funny thing is, the emotions I felt throughout this
ordeal were the same emotions I felt when I approached
women when I was younger.

I'd feel nervous, guilty, and paranoid that everyone was
watching me. And if I actually could pull myself together
enough to say something, I'd quickly eject and escape to
safety.

Now here's the thing. After many years of experience, I
finally realized something.

The more nervous and scared I looked, the more nervous and
scared women would be.

I used to think that my nervousness was rubbing off on
them. But this was not the case.

Think about what it means if someone is nervous about doing
something.

It means they don't feel they are doing something good, or
that they have anything of value to offer.

Nervousness is very close to guilt. And I think men feel
nervous when approaching women because they feel as if they
are trying to GET something from women, instead of OFFERING
something the woman might like.

Read that again and contemplate the message you are sending
women with your vibe.

If you are coming in timid, quiet, unable to hold eye
contact or say what's really on your mind, think about how
this looks to a woman.

It looks like you're about to ROB the WOMAN!

Basically, you are conveying that you have nothing GOOD to
offer, but rather, you want to GET something from her, or
DO something TO her.

And if you feel bad about your intention, this sends the
message that your intention is BAD or harmful to her.

As a male, you know that harming a woman is the furthest
thing we could ever think. But women don't know this.

All they see is a guy twice her size, who could easily hurt
her if he wanted to. To her it's unimaginable that you'd be
intimidated or scared to talk to her.

She's the one who's vulnerable, not you!

Here's why you are really nervous when you are talking to a
woman:

You think you must impress her, and you think that women
don't like mating.

These are bogus messages we've been taught since childhood.
Don't think about mating all day like men do because women
are pure and clean.

And if you want to be in bed with a woman, you must impress
her so much that she will DO YOU THE FAVOR of having
intimate with you.

But here's the problem - you have NO CLUE how to impress a
woman.

Or maybe you think you have to be rich or good-looking, and
you think you are neither.

So you feel you have nothing to offer, or you don't even
know WHAT to offer.

And to make it even worse, you feel like she'd be doing you
a favor, that spending in bed with you would be some kind
of inconvenience for her.

Guys can also scare women by being too aggressive, but most
guys aren't guilty of this unless they are drunk.

I think it is the same feeling of nervousness and kind of
timid - it comes from the same place of insecurity.

So what should you do?

Well you have to be full in your expression. This conveys
that you have something good to offer.

It may obviously be like "I have nothing to hide, and no
reason to fake my intentions. I'm a great guy!"

Be loud, look her in the eye, speak your mind, and talk
about what really interests you.

Women can spot a guilty intent a mile away - and it's so
common for guys to act like this that women stereotype and
assume that every guy is trying to be sneaky in order to
"get some."

So don't be surprised if they project this onto you at
first. Just keep it real and they'll realize you are
different.

It actually works, but you have to know how to be there,
and you must understand female psychology.

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