Your girlfriend and yourself have split the sheets but now
you have come to believe the two of you need to give it
another try because you know you belong together.
Breaking up is nerve wracking, stressful and frustrating,
especially if you were together for a long time. You know
how hard it is to wake up in the morning and spend another
day without that person. You can't stop thinking about that
person because everywhere you turn there's another reminder
of the times you had together.
You obviously want to get your ex back from the bottom of
your heart, but if you let your emotions get the better of
you, you are only going to worsen the situation and make it
harder, if not impossible, to get your ex back. Breaking up
is hard to deal with, especially when you feel like the
relationship shouldn't have ended.
So what do you do when you want to get back with the one
you love but end up making mistake after mistake and only
push her further away? Just think about the starting days
of your relationship, and by what she was attracted to from
you. These things can help the two of you get together
again, But this time you have to be a lot smarter and
caring in each and every thing you try. Make sure that none
of your activities should make her remember the sour things
which happened, this will only make the situation worse
than it is.
Most girls like guys with a strong and independent attitude
whom they can rely on and trust with their problems. So if
you want to get back with your girlfriend you have to act
in that manner and perspective.
You both should allow yourselves the necessary time to
adjust and think and calm down and contemplate your
decission. Ideally, you should have been free from contact
with your ex for at least a month before deciding that it's
finally time to make contact with them again.
The first thing to do is to phone her up and have a very
brief, casual chat with her. Invite her to meet you
somewhere neutral, but try to not make it sound like an
important event. You must remember that you are trying to
get your ex back in your arms, so try to refrain from
emotional manipulation.
When you meet her explain that you have been giving things
a lot of thought and that you want to apologize for all the
mistakes you have made in the past. Explain that you still
feel the same way about her and that you would like to be
given another chance.
Breaking up is hard to deal with, especially when you feel
that you still want to be with that person, but you just
don't know how to get her back. It's a situation that many
of us have been in and many more go through everyday. And
while relationships can be saved, if you don't have a clear
focus on what you want and what to do to get it, then you
just end up going around in circles and ruining your
chances of restoring your relationship.
When your girlfriend breaks up with you and you want her to
take you back, you might feel that if you should call,
text, email her to tell her you're sorry, you made a
mistake, beg her to forgive you, to take you back. This is
not a good idea and in fact does the exact opposite. It
just re-enforces her decision in breaking up with you and
proves to her that she's better off without you because as
the saying goes, no one needs the needy.
Now there is no easy way to get your ex back, but what if
you had help from a professional that made things easier
for you? What if you had someone or something that told you
what to and what not to do to get your ex-girlfriend back?
Sound too good to be true?
Well, there are actually several books and articles that do
offer the type of advice that you seek. All it takes is a
little searching in the right direction to find one. Some
of these are also actually quite good, well written, and
even have some very good advice for relationships in
trouble.
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There is such a book by Matt Huston, who is a Master of
Psychology, and it an excellent example of advice for
couples in trouble with their relationship and want to fix
it.You will find it at;
http://get-your-ex-back2.blogspot.com/
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