You have very busy work and home lives that makes stressful
demands on your time and energy. You will usually feel
tired after work and realise that there isn't much energy
left to share some love and concern with your partner
although you would really like to.
Your partner most probably will also experience hectic work
life and demanding home life with demands like cleaning
care of parents and children, doing housework and shop for
groceries.
Are you facing the above situations now? If yes, you need
to save your relationship now by learning how to deal with
"Marriage Intensity".
Marriage intensity is the treadmill of 3 lives concentrated
into one relationship. The 3 lives consisted of work life,
home life and love life. If you do not strike a balance,
you will feel a state of intensity when the 3 lives come
together, taking up all of your precious time.
When the state of intensity falls in, often the root of
most relationship problems, you will started to get
frustrated with even with the smallest things at work and
home but especially in your love relationship. It has a
disruptive effect on your emotions and results in negative
actions which will bring about bad impacts on your
relationship.
Thus, marriage intensity is a post-modern phenomenon that
requires you to identify it and to take action to defend
against, in order to save your relationship.
The antidote to marriage intensity is basically setting
aside quality time to focus on just your love relationship.
It does not have to be a lot of time but it does need to be
frequent and disciplined.
Here are 3 simple tips for you:
1. Make the time and the space for both of you to enjoy
each other. Take the phone off the hook, get rid of the
kids and put up a great big 'do not disturb' sign.
2. Do some reflections and create a list of events which
your partner and you enjoy doing togetehr! It could be a
stroll in the park after dinner, preparing breakfast for
each other or watching your favourite DVDs on the sofa. It
is just like being on a 'mini date' as you did when you
were getting to know each other.
3. Talk about the past, the present and the future. Share
your fears, hopes and ideas. Discuss on your proposal with
your partner and deliver the changes for the better
together.
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