There is one quality you can exhibit that will greatly
decrease any odds that you might be physically attacked
today. There is one characteristic that attackers avoid as
much as possible. What is this force? In a nutshell, it is
simple confidence.
Confidence speaks a language of its own. Attackers see this
from a potential victim and walk the other way. Why is this
such an effective repellent? Individuals who physically
attack look for easy targets. They don't want someone who
can overpower them. They are most often looking to
overpower others. Attackers are known to be weak themselves
or have a psychological problem where they feel vulnerable.
Attacking someone who is weaker is both easier and gives
them a sense of power.
It may seem like a difficult process. How can you exhibit
confidence without bordering arrogance? Arrogance is at the
opposite end of the spectrum, but carries the same
consequences. It shows weakness. Experts have long stated
that those who are arrogant or conceited are simply masking
an incredible lack of self-esteem or self-worth.
Confidence is not arrogance. It is not something that you
hold above others in that sense. Confidence tells those
around you that you are completely comfortable with
yourself and your surroundings. You are calm and won't be
easily intimidated.
How can you exhibit confidence? This is the most important
factor in protecting yourself. A confident person walks
with good posture. Many can thank their parents for
encouraging "perfect posture" because it is a trait that is
associated with confidence. Most people who walk with their
shoulders down or their heads down are those most sought
after by attackers. Keep your chin up and your back
straight. If you aren't accustomed to this you can always
practice in the privacy of your home. Confidence is simply
being comfortable with yourself and your surroundings.
Posture is just one faucet of exhibiting confidence.
Another trait is to assert yourself. This is no excuse to
be overbearing, but it does mean to stop fearing others.
You should not avoid eye contact with anyone because you
feel inferior. You should not feel intimidated just by
walking down the street.
Assertion is a quality that many people need today. It's
okay to say "no" to others. If someone is telling you to
follow them or to walk with them, and you don't want to,
don't. If a situation starts to look dangerous in any way,
leave it. If someone verbally attacks you, ignore them and
leave the situation. Many people attack to get a reaction
from someone else. They may be depending on your aggressive
return so the situation can escalate.
Attackers today aren't limited by gender, age, or
appearance. It is important to avoid believing stereotypes
when it comes to others. Just because a person does or
doesn't "look" a certain way doesn't mean they will or will
not attack.
Common sense and the knowledge of what you need to do can
eliminate many of the threats in life. Confidence is not
arrogance. It simply tells people you are comfortable with
yourself, with your surroundings, and you are capable of
handling the situation.
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Mike Rao writes on Personal Safety and Crime Prevention.
His websites are:
http://www.peppersprayking.com
http://www.personalprotectionproductsofohio.com
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