"How can I learn to talk to women?" is a very common
question asked by men all around the world. Jason, a 27
year old law student, sent me an e-mail asking me if there
was a way he learn to talk to women without having to come
up with a bunch of topics on his own.
There are a wide variety of lines, openers, tips, and pick
up philosophies when it comes to talking with women, so
here's a real-world technique that works really well. I've
been using this for well over a decade, so I know this
works well. It's simple, but it's not a magic bullet.
You've got to apply it and practice it just like any other
learned skill. Ready?
All you need is a pen, a small note pad or steno pad, and
the ability to get yourself to a book store, super market,
or any place that has a newstand full of magazines. Go the
area where they house the magazines and start going through
the ones that women usually read. Take your steno pad or
note paper and write down topics that might be interesting
to women. For example, "7 ways to make him love you" or
"10 sure-fire signs that he is cheating on you" or "what
men really think".
When I use this technique I write down a bunch of different
topics. Then I actually read the article and then I jot
down some notes. When I arrive back at my house I begin
working on creating openers. An opener is simply the first
thing you're going to say to a woman, so even "hi" is an
opener. Asking a woman her opinion about something is also
an opener. While you can do this exercise on the internet,
I prefer that you go out in public and do this. Why?
Because this gets you out into the public! You've got to
start getting used to interacting with strangers, even if
simply to look at a magazine a woman is reading and then
reading one of the headlines on the cover and simply asking
her "can you believe there are 357 fashion tips in that
magazine? I can not imagine who comes up with all those
ideas, do you?"
After you've written down a few topics (the more the
better, though if you are new at this keep it at around 4
to 6 topics for starters) go home and begin rehearsing your
openers. For example, if you wrote down an idea for an
opener based on the article "what men really think" you
might start off a conversation like this:
You might start off with, "I read an article recently that
talked about what men really think and I was talking about
it with a friend of mine."
She replies with, "Okay."
You continue with, "Part of the article said that most men
are looking for a woman that resembles their mother. They
even cited a couple studies to back it up. What's your take
on it?"
I've started conversations by simply saying "hi" and then
following it up with something else to say. Most women
know that as soon as you approach them that you are
interested in them. So a great way to approach them is by
asking them an opinion about something.
By making a habit of going through different kinds of
magazines that women read, you will eventually have so many
topics to talk about that you'll never run out of things to
say. So get out there and start practicing.
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Learning how to be more successful with women is a learned
set of skills that any man can learn. Dating coach Rod
Cortez overcame his own shyness and anxiety attacks by
using simple techniques that anyone can apply. You can
learn more at http://thedatepro.com/
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