How Do I Get Her back?

After a break up, guys find themselves thinking "what can I
possibly do to get her back?" What could they have done
differently, even thinking of writing an apology letter.
Anything to help get the relationship back.

This is a dead end for one reason above all: You may never
know what the real cause of the breakup was. Women much of
the time become emotional and often do not even know what
led up to the break up and they may not realize what is
causing them to feel the way they are. It is harmful in
many situations to lose all your energy trying to figure
out what went wrong.

The primary strategy to answering the question of "what can
I do to get back my ex girlfriend" is to let things cool
off for a while, do some other things. Go out, meet people,
make friends, have fun, forget about women for a while. Set
your goals to work on how to relate to women better.

Take a couple months, make some changes in your life, spend
time away from the ex and it will work wonders. However
much time you need in order to get your emotions and your
head clear.

Once you have your head on straight its time to
strategically work on getting your ex-girlfriend back. You
don't want to be wussy and beg though. Women don't respect
that.

Play it cool. If you have given everything enough time,
she is probably missing you as much as you miss her. Let
her know you are doing well (playing hard to get), but
don't over do it. This will get her really re-thinking
things.

If getting back with your ex is meant to be, this is when
it will be apparent. Remember to analyze is to paralyze,
over analyzing could prevent you from acting correctly when
trying to figure out what to do to get your ex girlfriend
back.

Trying to get back at her or trying to make her feel
jealous is not a good way to do things. This in fact can be
some of the worst things you can possibly do, since it will
show your ex that she should simply move on because you
already have. You want her to see that you are doing OK,
but you don't want to inspire her to move on if you ideally
want to get back together. Let her see how strong and
confident your are, and she will want to get back with you.

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find out more on this subject from Mike Jansen at:
http://secrettogetyourexback.blogspot.com/

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