Are you crying a lot and missing your ex with an aching and
broken heart? Are you grieving for the end of your
relationship? Are you reliving the harsh words, the
arguments and the recriminations so that you can't think of
anything else? Are you of two minds?
On the one hand you want to drive them out of your mind,
take revenge on them and proceed to better things, while on
the other hand you want to do anything it takes to save
your relationship and to get your ex back. All of this
turmoil is quite normal in the immediate aftermath of a
relationship breakdown. So now it is time to take a deep
breath, calm your heart and realize that it is up to you
what happens next.
Here are a few tips you can use to take control of your
relationship.
1) Accept the reality. OK you have been rejected, however
that doesn't mean you have to accept your ex's perception
of you. Wake up and smell the coffee and stop with the
denial. It not only could happen to you it has happened so
do you want to get back with your ex or not?
A word of warning here. If there was any verbal or actual
violence involved, forget your ex and move on. End of story!
2) Do not do blame. It is no one's fault, least of all
yours. There is nothing especially wrong with you.
Relationships do come and go everyday. It is part and
parcel of life's rich pattern.
A more important question than who was more at fault than
whom is what have you really discovered from this
experience? What will you do differently if you want to
save your relationship? Or what will you take forward for
yourself and your next soul mate?
3) It's make-your-mind-up time. What does your heart tell
you? Is your ex worth the effort to save your relationship
or are you going to move on?
So now is the moment to decide. If you want to save your
relationship, change your current lifestyle to rebuild a
much better relationship. Write down your personal mantra
and go for it right now.
Recovering and learning from a broken relationship is all
about changing your state of mind to a positive mental
attitude that will save your relationship or save you for
the next better relationship.
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